Jagalah Diri Dari Pelecehan Dan Kekerasan

Jagalah diri dari pelecehan dan kekerasan yang terjadi disekitar kita.

Publik berpikir bahwa definisi dari pelecehan dan kekerasan adalah hanya sebatas sentuhan, rabaan, pemukulan dan lainnya yang dilakukan secara fisik. Mereka harus tahu bahwa menunjukkan gambar dan video yang tidak pantas, membicarakan tentang humor yang menyinggung perasan dan membentak juga dapat didefinisikan sebagai pelecehan dan kekerasan.

Bila pelecehan dan kekerasan terjadi di:

- Organisasi dan kantor: Biasanya pengurus dan manajemen hanya memisahkan pelaku dan korban tanpa melakukan tindakan yang tepat

- Keluarga: Biasanya pihak keluarga membela pelaku, membentak korban, mengancam korban, dan menjunjung tinggi kata "kekeluargaan" agar korban diam saja, tidak bersuara dan merasa takut

- Dunia Online: Korban dapat mengamankan percakapan yang berisi pelecehan dan kekerasan yang terjadi padanya sebagai tanda bukti, namun pelaku menggunakan kepopuleran dan lingkarannya untuk mengancam, merendahkan dan menyalahkan korban

Keluarga dari pelaku biasanya akan membela pelaku dengan memberikan berbagai macam alasan diluar dari pelecehan dan kekerasan yang telah dilakukan oleh pelaku, membentak korban dan menggunakan kata-kata yang kasar sehingga korban merasa takut.

Pelaku biasanya cukup mahir untuk menutupi perilakunya yang jahat dengan melakukan perbuatan jahatnya hanya kepada 1 sampai beberapa korban saja, sehingga orang lain memandang pelaku sebagai orang baik yang tidak mungkin melakukan pelecehan dan kekerasan.

Bila Anda adalah korbannya, setelah melaporkan kejadian:

- Anda harus berani untuk memisahkan diri dan menjauh dari pelaku dan lingkarannya

- Anda harus menghargai diri Anda dengan tidak hidup bersama mereka yang telah melukai Anda

Hidup Mandiri lebih baik daripada hidup bersama lingkungan yang merusak mental dan menginjak harga diri.

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Take Care Of Yourself From Harassment And Violence

Take care of yourself from harassment and violence that happens around you.

The public thinks that the meaning of harassment and violence is only about physical touching, groping, beating, and others. They must know that showing inappropriate pictures and videos, talking about humor that hurt feelings, and yelling can also be taken as harassment and violence.

If harassment and violence occur in:

- Organization and office: Usually the board and management only separate the perpetrators and victims without taking proper action

- Family: Usually the family defends the perpetrator, yells at the victim, threatens the victim, and uses the word "family" so that the victim is afraid, remains silent, and doesn't speak up

- Online World: Victims can secure conversations that contain harassment and violence that happened to them as proof, but the perpetrators use their popularity and circle to threaten, humiliate and blame the victim

The family of the perpetrator will usually defend the perpetrator by giving various reasons apart from the harassment and violence that has been perpetrated by the perpetrator, yelling at the victim, and using harsh words so that the victim feels afraid.

The perpetrator is usually quite adept at covering up his evil behavior by committing his evil deeds only to 1 to a few victims so that other people see the perpetrator as a good person who is unlikely to commit harassment and violence.

If you are the victim, after reporting the incident:

- You have to dare to separate yourself and stay away from the perpetrators and their circles

- You have to honor yourself by not living with those who have hurt you

Living independently is better than living in an environment that destroys mentality and steps on self-esteem.

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Jesus Is The Leader In My Life

I may plan, but Lord Jesus Christ is The Supreme Soul who decides.

When I got the beautiful wallet that Tenik Hartono brought from Jerusalem, I was very happy and planned to use it as a wallet to carry US Dollars if I go to the United States Of America – the country of my dreams. What happened next turned out to be different!

One day, when I was going to a nearby Church to attend one of the pre-Easter Masses, I suddenly wanted to edit my Prayer Sheets which were too many. I want to place some Prayer Sheets in the Church so that the Prayer Sheets can be used by others to pray and be useful for other people too. After finishing editing, when I was about to place the Prayer Sheets – which I still use to pray – in a plastic wrap that I usually use, my mind suddenly went to this beautiful purse from Jerusalem. The thoughts kept coming! Finally, that beautiful wallet from Jerusalem is the place for the Prayer Sheets I use to pray when traveling anywhere.

Eventually, I realized that my dream of going to America, living in America, and maybe working for Elon Musk might not have been the right dream. Since a long time ago, I did have aspirations to go to America and live in that country. Several times I have tried various ways to go to America and live in America, but none of them worked. One of them was when I wanted to go on vacation to visit my best friend who lives in America in December 2018, but the plan was then canceled because I had an accident a few months earlier.

It seems that this beautiful purse from Jerusalem wants to say that: "I'd better pray first to Lord Jesus Christ and surrender all my dreams to Jesus. It is Christ who will decide the dream that is most appropriate and true for me."

In the end, I have to be grateful for all the blessings that Lord Jesus Christ has given me: My safe and comfortable cabin, the work that I can still do to help me live and use my abilities and mind, and the life that I can still live and do. Praise Lord Jesus Christ!

Thank You, my Lord Jesus Christ, for Your Blessing and Your Gentle Guidance in my life. I love Jesus and I want to do All Your Plans. May Christ always bless me, guide me, and protect me. Amen.

Thank you, Tenik, for the beautiful purse. I believe that Tenik is the Hand of Jesus. May Tenik always be blessed and happy. Amen.

In The Name Of Lord Jesus Christ.

Note: This story in Indonesian Languange can also be read on my blog at https://theresiamariafaustina.blogspot.com/2023/05/yesus-adalah-pemimpin-dalam-hidupku.html

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Safety Procedures When Leaving Home

Safety Procedures that must be carried out when leaving the house for a long time are given by the management that manages the residence. Hope this procedure helps.

Safety and Survival Greetings from me!

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Safety Procedures To Do When Leaving The House For A Long Time

Homeowners and their family members must ensure that:

- Stoves, Gas, and other cooking equipment must be turned off

- Electrical equipment, air conditioners, and refrigerators are not plugged in and connected to a power source

- Windows, doors, balcony doors, and gates must be locked tightly

- All water faucets are turned off and are not leaking

- Strong-smelling food must be stored in a closed place so that it does not spoil and rot quickly, and cause pests

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Prosedur Keselamatan Ketika Meninggalkan Rumah

Prosedur Keselamatan yang harus dilakukan ketika meninggalkan rumah dalam jangka waktu yang lama ini diberikan oleh manajemen yang mengelola tempat tinggal. Semoga prosedur ini dapat membantu.

Salam Keselamatan dan Bertahan Hidup dari saya!

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Prosedur Keselamatan Yang Harus Dilakukan Ketika Meninggalkan Rumah Dalam Jangka Waktu Yang Lama

Pemilik rumah dan anggota keluarganya harus memastikan bahwa:

- Kompor, Gas dan peralatan memasak lainnya harus dimatikan, dalam keadaaan mati dan tidak menyala

- Peralatan listrik, AC dan kulkas tidak tercolok dan tersambung ke sumber listrik

- Jendela, pintu, pintu balkon dan pintu gerbang harus dikunci dengan rapat

- Semua kran air dimatikan dan tidak dalam keadaan bocor

- Makanan yang beraroma tajam harus disimpan di tempat tertutup agar tidak cepat basi, membusuk dan menimbulkan hama

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